Originally Posted By: Vanilla
Do this devotee because your M is ready to move to S then D, and not because you have an EA, no matter how attractive that may seem to you. If you truly want to move on and find new love, the do so with pride and dignity and not with attraction to OM leading you.



This. x1,000. Go down the path that is yours. A path of learning about yourself and healing and learning from past mistakes (not just within your M). If OM or H is still down the path and waiting for you, that's great. But, don't go down a path because of a pull that may (or may not) be temporary.

All of this is hard -- but I would encourage you to think about what you truly need.


M:32,H 32
T:10, M5
BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger
H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15
Served D Papers: 10/15
Divorced: 11/15