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[Mozza]

Thanks a lot LisaB. I really appreciate that you stop by to share your thoughts and the video is not old news at all. I wish I could move on in a day or two, but these things stay with me.

A few months back my H's office had a big party and there were lots of photos posted to facebook. Of course I had blocked the company facebook page, his facebook page, and all of his coworker's facebook pages, but I still saw a few pop up from mutual friends.

I purposely did not look at the hundreds of photos in the albums on their company sites. I figured why torture myself?

I'm impressed. This is my biggest DB difficulty: I can't cut any channel of information to my W. My friend who's following my sitch closest keeps handing my 2x4 about this because it really impacts my PMA. Case in point: yesterday she posted a picture of herself with her father and OM "liked" it on FB. Aouch! Mood ruined for a couple of hours. I have this obsessive "need to know" which is doing me no good. I know I have to stop, but I haven't found a way. Sheer will is in short supply right now.

Don't react, and if she asks just say you didn't see it or didn't have time to watch it, or whatever.

That's what I did. She called me on Friday and her first question (?!) was whether I watched the video. I said I hadn't gotten to it yet. Unfortunately, I then asked "Was it a good party?" to move the conversation along, so I got an earful about how much of what she drank (wine and sake), how many of her colleagues threw up (4) and how late she came home (3:30 am).

GAL report: I've four kids between the ages of 3 and 6 in my living room watching The Cat in the Hat right now!