It's great that h has been initiating spending time together, ML, and sending you pages!!
**(I do this too) Don't get freaked out if he doesn't want to be snugglie on an occasion or two. I know that it is the norm for you, but allow him to have an "off" night or mood or whatever. Don't judge him for not being warmer or closer to you. Let him be where he needs to be and let your wants go for a few hours-b/c as you see, he bounced right back the next morn., he knew he was doing it. Yes, he must be overwhelmed with his emo's, and his MLC/dep. stuff, or work stuff, or ???
Warm and fuzzy-I took that that he is concerned that he can't "do it for ya'". He obviously is projecting his insecurities onto you ie this and his questioning you about what you do when he is not around. When I read that, I wanted to give HIM a 2x4! Just whack him and tell him to knock it off. I wouldn't entertain these questions/comments anymore. YOU know that YOU are being faithful. Whether he believes it or not is HIS issue. You have nothing to make him think otherwise.
The OW talks prob. did NOT help the sit...The stuff that you said was "icky"-DITCH IT! It doesn't work. You end up feeling, well, icky.
