After reading through your posts - yes, we are in the exact same situation. Doesn't this blow? I am beside myself and every morning I wake up with dread in the pit of my stomach.
I agree with you and Wonka, there is no negotiating or talking or reasoning with them with they are involved with their AP. However much it hurts, we just have to let them figure this out for their own sake. There is nothing we can do, except protect ourselves from their poor choices.
I am rooting for you and learning from your situation. Currently I am no contact with WAW as much as that kills me. We swap kids, but it's very very akward.
I am still learnin the art of no contact and make a lot of mistakes, but I am a work in progress.
I will get some self affirmation apps for my phone too, that sounded like a really good idea.
Take care of yourself, continue to post often. I am learning from you.
