1. he considers us done, finished, over - to him the logic is not there for me to have claims on him or be "jealous"
Lisa, be very careful with this one. Don't let anyone tell you how you should feel. My H is fond of saying something along the lines of, "you don't have any right to feel _____ (angry, jealous, etc.)". Feelings are not logical, they just are, and they are there for a reason. For your H or mine to shut them down just really rubs me the wrong way.
To think that you could actually listen to him and then say "thanks but no thanks" shows just how far you've come. Good job!
