T-mom.
I don't know what I want any more. I don't much care about DBing any more. and Yes OM is married with 4 kids. W and OM work together.

Well - what I suspected is all true. I was just too stupid to do anything about it before.

She went right back to her ways and tried to be nice to me all day. This is her way to control everything.

At night she continued as if nothing was wrong. I told her "you do not have to be nice to me any more"

W: is that what you think I am doing?
me:you have made your decision, and it is not necessary to for you to do anything for me any more.

w:I did it because I though we were through
me: please stop lying to me. I do not want to hear any more
w: (crying) I don't want to hurt you or the kids any more
w:I didn't expect you to forgive me for before and I don't expect you to forgive me now.

Are we done? I suppose so. I cannot say that I will forgive her. She will not come back to me at this point. I don't know how to continue.

This all while S20 and her were having a battle over text message - he is not coming back either. He won't be here for christmas and probably never - until W is gone.

I feel like I've just lost everything.

I just want it to stop.

Last edited by u-turn; 12/22/14 01:35 PM.
Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015