Ganb8te 3 - conquering crow pose

[jim0987]

Hi Ganb8te

actually I think you did really well. A couple of the most minor points where you could have done slightly better but you already picked those up and they were so minor he probably didnt notice

two bits i just want to pick up on if you dont mind

- he says "People don't change"

To me this is the key line in all of this. People change all the time its how we grow as people, the difference is which parts you choose to cultivate (you might even be ok to say this some time)

Now you are showing those changes in the way your conducting yourself - he just may take some time to believe them.

I came across a good book that helped me understand some of the things that went wrong in our R." He says "I'm doing all those things, too" (therapist, much?) and *literally* says "Maybe you can text me the details (of the book)"

I do think you should text him the details of a book, just not necessarily DR or DB or which ever book you were referring to. If you sent DR he might think he is being played where as if you texted something like 5 LL or His needs, Her needs then this may have a more self improvement slant (its about you rather than the marriage itself)