Your sitch reminds me of something my IC told me: separation can be a mean of communication in a couple. It sounds like your W had something strong to say about your parents and this finally got her heard. You're d well.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.