Not much to report this weekend. We've gotten along fine, no more talk of meeting OM when he comes back into town. I'm sure it's coming though. Interactions have all been positive.
We've been getting ready for Christmas. Our downtown square decorates in thousands of lights for the holidays. We're taking the Ds downtown tomorrow night for pics and pizza. We'll be at home for Christmas and take one day to go to Oklahoma to be with W's family.
Only having one family to be with over Christmas has removed a lot of stress. Especially since I've been finding out how dysfunctional my family really is. W told me how much healthier and happier I am now that I've gotten my family into perspective; that they were a big weight on both of us. I couldn't agree more. I can see having some sort of relationship with my parents in the future, but it will be much more limited. My W, if we remain married, no longer has any obligation from me to have a relationship with them. I think this will be an important factor in healing our marriage.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
