Card, I've been reading your posts lately (I think a lot of us who have spouses who used porn have found them very helpful- so thank you for sharing - I know it must have been difficult). I remembered you posting a story about a high school girlfriend who broke up with you and how much that affected you (I apologize if I got the details wrong and it wasn't high school) and I see you have been with your wife since you were 19.
Since you've been an adult, have you ever been out on your own, and happy, while not in a relationship?
