Ganb8te 3 - conquering crow pose

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I have sent my H a few letters at the beginning of my situation. I will tell you that it did not really do anything positive for the situation. He replied to my letters - the first one with a brush off "thanks for sharing" type reply and the second with a heartfelt long letter telling me he was sorry but our relationship was OVER. Neither response made me feel very good nor helped me move on! So it was a waste of time.

Thanks, Lisa. I guess I wasn't expecting that H would respond to the letter. Given Vossy's impression that it sounds like it is a question and given your experience getting responses above, I am rethinking.

Just try to go, have fun, look sexy, show positivity and be cool. This meeting may reveal nothing or it may set something in action. Just go and see.

OK, so what is everyone's take on the word COOL as MWD uses it?

1. Cool - as in awesome
2. Cool - as in luke warm or unenthusiastic
3. Cool - as in calm and composed

I guess I've been aiming for 1 and 3, but am wondering if 2 would seem more consistent with moving on