-Does your W have some memory lapses when she talks with you or Ds?
-Does your W have a vacant look in her eyes?
-Does your W flinch when you try to touch her in nonsexual ways such as the arm, shoulder?
My W has done all the above. Said "get your F*cking hand off me" once when I put my hand on her knee.
One time, I playfully bounced on the bed and my arms brushed against Ms. Wonka's lower legs (she was under the covers) and her eyes WIDENED like teacup saucers. Then she said, "you know that's inappropriate...don't touch me like that ever again." She was in full-blown A with the OW. Wacky and misplaced 'loyalty' to the affair partner.
