Hey Mozza, I know it's old news but I just wanted to comment on your video story. My H also works in a "young" company with a fun party atmosphere and it has had a huge influence on BD and the whole situation. And his OW1 was his younger colleague. So I truly understand the boat you are in.
A few months back my H's office had a big party and there were lots of photos posted to facebook. Of course I had blocked the company facebook page, his facebook page, and all of his coworker's facebook pages, but I still saw a few pop up from mutual friends.
I purposely did not look at the hundreds of photos in the albums on their company sites. I figured why torture myself?
Anyway, I saw him a week or so after the party and he gleefully showed me some photos on his phone and then said "you saw the facebook pictures right?" like it was the most natural thing in the world for me to be fascinated by his office party pictures. If we are not together why on earth would I go out of my way to see his office party pictures?
So I agree with the others that say she is just clueless and wants to show off how incredible her life is now. She is not thinking of your feelings, she is in her own crazy fog world imagining she is the queen of the universe and the belle of the ball.
Don't react, and if she asks just say you didn't see it or didn't have time to watch it, or whatever.
Enjoy this time with your kids while your W is away.
Hugs, Lisa
Oh and by the way I finally did look at the photos from the party weeks later. OW1 looked fat and frumpy and there were no photos of WAH. The party looked boring.
