Lisa

I really think for your own peace of mind it's time to take a leaf from HPs strategy.

H, unless and until you are prepared to commit properly to your M then I do not want to meet you for lunch"

Or if that does not suit you
"Why do you want to meet for lunch H?"

KISS as wonks would say.
Smiling for you
Vanilla

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW