Hey Jim, I'm still reading through your long introspective post, it's really good and speaks to me, I see a lot of similarities in our thought processes.
I understand how hard sharing the same space with a WAW can be. Just keep up the PMA and try to stay out of her way.
Me 28 W 27 T 10 M 2 No kids (fertility issues - mine) Bomb 7/20/2014 - EA Confirmed W moved out 9/15/14 W dating OM 11/22/14