Thanks, everyone for your input. I see there is a consensus - don't give him the letter. I'll let you know what I decide. Funnily enough, my IC also took a once over and encouraged me to make it even more from the heart. She's lovely, a bit of a romantic I think.

So, today is the day. I've sent H a few options for tonight. Two places we've never been to together and one we've been to once. Let's see what he picks...

Last edited by ganb8te; 12/21/14 11:38 PM.

H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014