I understand the struggle, but you have to stop pursuing her. Take a step back and read your posts and think of if you were reading someone else's thread .. What advice would you offer? I know you're concerned about your W but she needs to see that you are not always there. The more you pursue her and offer if she needs anything, etc she knows you are waiting for her while she's not commited to her M.
Sorry if this comes off harsh... I say it with love!
