Thanks all of you! I'm not going to try and save the day or anything. I just got off the phone with the wife trying figure out holiday break schedule. And tried to get some more info out of her. Just sad, sounds like she is going to drop out of school so she can work full time. To be able to afford an apartment with the kids. She is going to give up on her dream because of all this. And work a mediocre job that doesn't pay as well. Just really saddens me that she doesn't see what this is all costing her. And what she is giving up for OM. I also can't believe her family is going to let her do that. But maybe they have given up on her as well. I wish I could just smack her in the face and say look what this is all costing you, wake up. But it's her life and I can't. Negative comment but, if this doesn't wake her up from her addiction I don't know what will. Really sad for her right know. To think this person could have it all and is choosing not to. Time to get my mind off her and enjoy my kids again. She said she did want to talk again but me and the kids are to busy today. So we will see.

Thanks every body. And I'm really trying to keep my emotions in check.


M36/W30
S13,D10,S6
Married 4.5 together 12
Bomb 1/14
EA/PA OM 1/14 still going
Served 2/14/14
Separated 3/14
D paused 6/14
6/15 divorced