Hey, mustardseed, read my current thread -- Labug has some stuff on there that will be relevant to your sitch. Also the last page or two of my thread XXIV, which talks a lot about the advantages of at least a legal separation.
Wishing you a very merry Christmas, in spite of the disarray in our lives.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
