Christmas is a b*tch. I have not been around here long, so take my advice for what it is, but re: caroling, you told her where you were going and invited her to call based on her plans. I think that's good enough. Let her ask you if she can come. If she doesn't, I'm sure the thought of you taking the kids to do caroling would impress her and hopefully, make her see what she's missing.
That was my thought OK, and it is nice to get that reinforced..
Your last sentence hit home a little bit.. Although I never intended it like that (more of a GAL activity than anything else), you have a point.. Perhaps she will be impressed.. Perhaps she may see what she is missing..
Either way and whatever happens, I'm taking the boys and we are going to sing up a storm!!..
Me:35 W:31 S6 + S9 T: 10 years M: 7 years BD: 7/2014 S: 8/2014 W has new BF: 12/2014 Still fighting the good fight!!..