Hey Ganb8te, While I don't know your sitch too well I had a thought on your letter. I know elsewhere in the forum they don't recommend suggesting R books or articles to your spouse. Do you think the passage from the Snarch book would get through to your H? Or would it be simply resisted or discarded? I don't know how receptive he is to that kind of feedback. I have gotten tempted at times to send my W articles that I think would help but in reality she would probably turn a blind eye to or get annoyed by it. Not saying I am right, just something to think about.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
