W contacted me not long after my last post to discuss some last minute presents that were purchased for the boys as "Santa" gifts.. Conversation was cordial and friendly..

I asked if she was going to call the boys later to speak to them as we were going to a carol's sing-a-long tonight, and if we were there she could call after, or a bit before.. I said "whatever works in with what you are doing"..

I wanted to extended an invitation to her to join us if she wasn't up to anything else, but I did think better of it until I got some further advice..

Would this be seen as pursuing or would she likely see it for what it is, which is singing xmas songs with the boys??..


Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..