W contacted me not long after my last post to discuss some last minute presents that were purchased for the boys as "Santa" gifts.. Conversation was cordial and friendly..
I asked if she was going to call the boys later to speak to them as we were going to a carol's sing-a-long tonight, and if we were there she could call after, or a bit before.. I said "whatever works in with what you are doing"..
I wanted to extended an invitation to her to join us if she wasn't up to anything else, but I did think better of it until I got some further advice..
Would this be seen as pursuing or would she likely see it for what it is, which is singing xmas songs with the boys??..
Me:35 W:31 S6 + S9 T: 10 years M: 7 years BD: 7/2014 S: 8/2014 W has new BF: 12/2014 Still fighting the good fight!!..