newcomer now receives mail in Hell

[bravo61]

got a text from XW about the schedule of pickup of the kids tomorrow. i didn't answer so she had her brother (that's here visiting) text me and ask the same question (really?). texted her back and got that all squared away. she had also texted me earlier about picking up S at D's daycare on a date in a couple of weeks (guess she has to work overnight) and keeping him until 8a when she will be back. told her sure no problem. yeah, i couldv'e told her that i had to work late, or i couldn't do it and make her py but i don't want to be that person any more.

she has said before that she thinks that i will revert back after the D and she had a "plan" for that. whatever that means.

on a positive note, the big trip with the kids is starting tomorrow. really excited. i never thought that i would be taking my kids dogsledding by myself one day. well, we're gonna make our own "family" memories without the XW. she could've been a part of them but this is her choice. i am a little nervous about a 3 hr drive to a place i've never been before with two kids but you know what, that's what an adventure is! wish us luck!