This week I was told about a couple who were still newlyweds. He comes in from work and gets the bomb. She had found someone else. It is mind blowing and I wonder what in the world these girls are thinking when they M just to experience a big wedding!
How long were you together before you M? You will probably hear some crazy excuses before all is said and done. I have learned you cannot make another person love you, if they don't want to. You cannot talk them into, either. And why should you? As you said, you want your needs met, too. If she doesn't have a change of heart, you will be the one who is always catering to her.......hoping she will throw you a crumb.
What are your ages? A young couple usually has a lot to learn about each other and how to work together to have a good M. And you can have one, if you handle this situation right, and if she does love you.
What are the mistakes you have made? You said you made then b/c you are young.
I suggest you don't drag friends and relatives into this by asking for their help or advice. Of course, parents will need to know but they really need to let the two of you work this out.
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What are her intentions telling me how great of a person I am and that she will always be my friend?! W
I can only tell you that usually when a woman tells a man this, it is her way of saying she doesn't want him and would rather just part on friendly terms. One thing you need to learn about a WAW is when she makes these type of comments......it means nothing close to what you want to read into it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
