Yes, it's inconvenient for him because it interferes with his ability to have the every-other-week parenting schedule and also I will no longer be available to babysit for him whenever he has a conference, work travel, or a trip to see his girlfriend planned. I think he knows better than to ask me to dog-sit. But, you know, I'm sure he thinks I'm being the selfish one by putting my needs (or, according to him "wants") first. No matter. He made a choice based on his "wants," and I, as a result, have to make a decision for my future based on my needs. Here's what I will accomplish with the move: a stable job with benefits, family support for me and my daughter, health insurance and access to great medical facilities to deal with my benign brain tumors, and the proximity of lots of friends and family. I have a lot to look forward to! I'm just anxious that he's going to try to stall the process just to mess with me and to try to delay the move. But I'll make certain that doesn't happen.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!
