Raliced, I went through my calendar and cirled the days when I discovered this. I really wish someone could bring it up to her because I am pretty sure its a managable thing. I am NOT an expert !
My plan of action is no contact on circled days. Self preservation?
How do you manage your hormonal days? You do have them, you know. We all do.
Bringing it up to her wouldn't work well and I think you know that. There really isn't good "management" for it unless she wants to work on yoga and meditation.
I think you realize it's best to let this ^^^ go. The holidays are difficult for everyone, maybe after the 1st, she'll be ready to make it final.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss