Can someone talk to me about MLC cycling? Or provide links. I feel so crazy sometimes. How rapid are their cycles? I'm doing pretty well at staying dim. We went for drink Thursday to discuss upcoming relocation which potentially may have the girls and I moved before he can move too. I did lots of listening and affirming. He cried some, I cried more then I had hoped too. We didn't talk any future at stuff but both agreed the door to him coming home wasn't closed. He said in his 5 weeks in his own place he's Been able to do some reflecting and he is seeing just how negative of a person he is and he doesn't like it. He wants to change that and so much more he says but doesn't know how. We briefly cheated about him gettig back into IC but well see if that happens.

I'm trying to learn more about MLCers cycling and don't know where to look.

Thank you in advance!


M:32 H: 40
D1: 3
D2: 9 months old
Bomb dropped: 2/4/14 (I was 7 month preg)
Moved out: 11/15/14
OW confirmed and supposedly dumped 1/15