Job, I’m sure H is going to only post the fun stuff there. Even if he feels different inside.

Originally Posted By: job
Keep in mind, replay will take as long as it takes for him to get through it. As I have mentioned before, your h is a very slow one and as time goes on, you will see more changes taking place. The person you knew is no longer that person. He is growing, experimenting and trying to figure out who he wants to be when he grows up. Eventually, the behaviors will settle down, but it will take some time.


I think you are right, job. This might be exciting for him now, but knowing him, it will die down eventually. I’m just not sure I want to wait for that long. I’m exhausted.

I need to set up an appointment with a legal aid using my benefits and find out what I need to do separate and protect my finances. I think I want to do a legal separation to see how it works, because I’m not sure how we would divide the properties.

I was reading some info on separation and divorce in my state. It says “legal separation must be based on either incurable insanity or irreconcilable differences causing the irremediable breakdown of the marriage.” Hmm… Which one do I choose? The second choice doesn’t look right to me, because I think we don’t have irreconcilable differences. I would go with the first choice of “incurable insanity”, but I think H might disagree, LOL. I’m thinking to introduce an amendment to this law, including another option for LBS: “tired of being in limbo”.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state