This is a crooked road and that hurtful video is one of the obstacles that keeps it so hair raising. I'm sorry.
But... Seriously? W being thrown in the air by male colleagues? They can't possibly respect her.
Hang in there. You've got this.
I'm not sure if it is important or at all relevant, etc...but the "toss your colleague in the air" struck me as odd. Pretty much what Maybel said.^^
I once worked at a corporation where the CEO said if we got the account with a big buyer, HE would do cartwheels down the hall.
We did get it. HE did cartwheels (good ones, too!) and there was affection for him and respect. He's also been the guy to dunk at charity events...Very capable of not taking himself too seriously.
But I am not familiar with your w's occupation, or if she is a supervisor, etc.
Sometimes it's fun to mock the boss, but if it's a colleague, it seems a bit "too familiar" for my tastes. But before I went "California corporate", I was military.
So maybe that's just my perspective. You know what really matters though?
The only thing that matters is what YOUR GAL is today. What's up with that??
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