Starting the next chapter

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AJ,
Thanks for chiming in. We have been thisclose to signing 3 times now. I am getting a a decent deal financially and we are splitting time with the boys 50-50. As this drags out I am caving more and more to stand up for the financial deal and the split time with the boys. The cost of D is pretty big (10 k) and the combative nature I want to avoid.

I can give a little to avoid that. However, now we have settled everything except how to adjust support annually. Now, she comes at me with a tm message barrage saying she wants to up support by 100 a month for no good reason. She is pushing to see what I will tolerate.

I am going to get clobbered for this but oh well: I went back through all my tm from her. There have been 4 major blow ups since she left. each and every single one started exactly 28 days after the last. Now, I KNOW I should not blame hormones or cycles but really? 28 days on the nose, 4 times in a row?
Background: she was on some sort of birth control that lasted 5 or 7 years. That ended right before she left.
I could never and would never bring this up to her, but to me, its pretty obvious whats going on.

Thanks for chiming in AJ

Re OM I intervened to the extreme to protect the boys. WAW was cramming him down their throat and they wanted nothing to do with it and would not stand up to her.
Afer they stood up to her and she agreed to not bring OM around them... to me he no longer exists. He is twice divorced and ran off with his second D attorney. He will not be around long.
Dopamine, addiction, fairy tail, knight in shining armor etc. etc.