That's sorta where I was going, you each spend up to a certain amt and anything over that is the responsibility of the purchaser.

But you had some sort of agreement, there's more to this story.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss