moving on

[Ahoy]

Heard from a friend who is also friends with H that he is upset about my plans to move (because it is inconvenient for him, mainly). She said he reminds her of her own XH -- negative, selfish, and plays the victim. As my friend in New Orleans says "Don't F up your life, and then turn around and wonder why it's all F'ed up." H has difficultly seeing that this situation is entirely of his choosing, his doing. My friend asked me if I was missing him at the holidays or feeling nostalgic. I can honestly say "nope!" Oh, and I have a date tonight. Just for fun, and keeping it just friends, but a date regardless. Go me!