I've got a quiet saturday in my house by myself and actually i'm alright i think. I thought about how lonely i might feel and although i miss my wife (and hate her A) i'm ok.

Had a nice night out with a mate last night and stayed over at theirs.

bought the kids christmas presents this morning and i have a couple of hours just relaxing at home before going to a different mates tonight. (cocktails in london plan has changed but financially thats probably a good thing)

anyways so i'm sat writing up a bit more of my personal development psychoanalysis stuff (unsure whether to post it) and watching TED talks in the background.

I'm posting now because I just watched a TED talk which for those who have followed my thread seemed remarkably appropriate and thought id share it

Getting Stuck in the Negatives - Amy Ledgerwood


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress