Matt is right about one thing, i.e., FB and MLC are the new of way meeting and keeping up w/people. It's true, people tend to post only the good stuff, somewhat bragging, per se, about their lives. In fact, some are not even telling the truth, very similar to the dating sites where people post pictures of others instead of themselves or they lie about themselves...until you meet them or you figure it out.
FB can be a great tool if it's used properly and many do use it for communicating w/family and friends, not surfing for the next conquest.
I'm very happy to read that you went to the holiday get together and had fun. The attention you received helped boost your ego a bit and I think it's nice that people are noticing you.
I'm sure you and your lady friends had a great time last evening. At least no one had to drive. LOL!
You are doing well. Keep up the good work and definitely go to your vacation home for the holidays. You need a nice break.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.