Job, our post is so comforting, with all these reasons that make sense. I thought I was losing my mind. This is so surreal… On the other side, oh boy… If he is still in replay 2 ½ years after the BD, considering he started his crisis a couple of years before that… I don’t think I have that much patience to see it through…

Gwen, like I mentioned before, I don’t see anything wrong with being in FB. My friend from the vacation home place uses it to keep with his kids and relatives across the ocean. It might “another phase”, like you said. Thanks for cheering me up.

Matt, I think you are into something here… I think FB doesn’t give the true state of things. I know that people who have relatives who live far away, use the FB to keep in touch with. However, I also know that some things that get posted there are so not the reflection of reality. I actually find your comment about the fake reality and MLCer very interesting. I can totally see it this way. Well, it took my H this much time to figure it out... Just like job said, he in indeed a very slow MLCer. Lucky me, LOL.

Just wanted to update on some good news, not related to H.

Went to my department holiday get together on Tuesday. It was fun. A small group of people went to a different restaurant after the event was finished. And I think I got the most attentions from the VP of our department. Not that I’m interested or super thrilled, but it was nice…

Tonight I had my two lady neighbors over for food and drinks. We had a great time!

Just reporting on my GAL activity, if anybody is interested…

Had a few glasses of wine… Not going to edit this post…


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state