Thanks for the feedback DaddyLongShanks (great member name). To answer your question, I am 44 and she is 35. OM turned 40 over the summer, we were at his birthday party. My wife and I have never had a problem before with the 'age gap'. I would even suggest that our age gap is still not the issue, but rather our lack of connection over the last year.
So we got to the next level. I know they are having sex, might have started this past week, perhaps after their company christmas party...while I was home with our D. If he was a virgin (read my very first post) he is not anymore.
I know a lot. It has been an interesting stretch of 24 hours. I also have come to discover that I may not need to worry about my wife and career, for fear of company uncovering the affair -- I have strong reason to believe that the OM's BOSS is aware of the affair and enabling it. I also know that WAW believes and tells OM she will be with him for the rest of her life. BTW, OM has still not left his home yet. Again, we are separated.
One member recently told me (in a post) that "You may not have seen the worst, yet, but I think you will". Something tells me this still in not "the worst". Am I wrong.
I actually feel okay as I write this post, and the information is not even 12 hours old. I knew this was going to happen. They needed to take the next step. My anger does not feel that massive and at this stage I have zero hope / expectation that WAW is coming home, so I can set aside that emotional roller coaster. Besides, even if she wanted to I can't imagine letting her come back to me. Doesn't matter, she's done with us and have been for a long time.
Back at best amigo's house w/ his family getting ready to have some chicken strips with cheese melted on top. I deserve it.
