Your riding The Beast from Kings Island! Welcome on board....grrr.
Originally Posted By: Rzrback
She's always been that way. She's an intelligent person, but is completely emotionally driven. I'm sure she's also afraid of being exposed to any objective truth about what's happening.
^^^that is a bit of mind reading. What 'objective truth' according to whom?
Yours?
Mine?
Sandi's?
Exactly.
You'll need to forcefully express the need for no contact with the OM in your next MC session. It is just not only "not okay" but also highly inappropriate with the context of being in a marriage with YOU where she needs to work on the connection. Cannot divert her attention elsewhere just because so this so-called connection that is opaque.
