I have been really trying to avoid drama with her. So I have to get this off my chest before I explode on some one or to her. Just picked up the kids from school and they seen the presents under the tree from me and are very excited. I said why are you so excited, mom should all ready have presents under the tree. They said no her and grandma where doing ording and making a list last night. I'm thinking to myself there is no way in heck they are getting presents off line in time. I hope these kids have presents! Then I get a text from the wife asking if she can borrow money from me and she will pay me back next week. I said no, I'm sorry I don't have that kind of extra cash right now. It was a lot of money. And she said okay. Not only is she waiting till last minute but she doesn't even have the money. I even gave her all her child support early so she would have enough. She will have to do the one thing she hates and ask family for money. Just so frustrated with her! She better not mess up Christmas for these kids.

Thanks for letting me get that off my chest. I feel better now. Back to my kids and fun.


M36/W30
S13,D10,S6
Married 4.5 together 12
Bomb 1/14
EA/PA OM 1/14 still going
Served 2/14/14
Separated 3/14
D paused 6/14
6/15 divorced