WAW Dating - Oh noes!!..

[LoveMyW]

No doubt the holidays are more emotional.

Please try to not put all of your focus on her and try to back away from analyzing everything so much.

What is something you will do just for you over the next few weeks?

My focus isn't all on her JP, and I'm trying not to analyse, but it's more of a "why now" than "is it hope"??..

As for something I am going to do just for me, it's hard to say.. I'll be GAL'ing it up with the kids over the next couple of weeks, then I'm back in to work and will be getting in to some fitness training with BIL.. As for the rest of it, I'm going to have to play it by ear as my cash situation isn't going to be the best with all the bills I have coming in, and almost all activities where I live cost money..

LMW, stick with jp's advice here. You simply can't accurately mind read a WAW (XX at the end of a text, getting upset about kids going away for a few days), and especially a wayward one. She probably doesn't even know how she's going to feel 1 minute from now.

Also, get even more detached from that R she's in. If he's the guy you think he is, she will eventually hit a wall with him. But I think this sitch is unique in that you probably need to verify it is him, for your kid's safety. I don't even know what you could do at that point, but I would start with confirming that.

I'm hearing you Card.. I'm learning that too!!..

I'm pretty detached from her R, but know I could be further.. That is something I have to work on..

The only thing I have to get physical proof of is the meth/ice usage, but my source is pretty accurate.. Everything else is proven 100%..