http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2496079&page=1

So, I hope this has all worked okay. My second thread has started. Just to recap:

BD in July "I'm having an A. I'm confused and need to visit OW.
Separated in July - I moved out (to parents 2 hours away)

Lots of talking July-Sept. H confused about what he wants
September - I start LRT with 'dim' contact - no emails or talks since then

November - friend tells me H says our R is over (he hasn't told me.)
Things sound rocky with OW who lives abroad & has an on/off OM

December - I moved into a rental flat. Plan for NC over Xmas period

Last edited by Toots; 12/19/14 08:55 PM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus