I was going to give you a 2x4 about not focusing on what you've lost but what you've gained: anything you want in the future you can go for and grab without anyone else's input.

But Ralice got it first. wink

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies