I'll be talking about drawing the line in the sand about OM with my coach at our next session on the 29th. I don't feel like I need to go home tonight and do it.
I agree 100%.
I do want to add this, while I'm thinking about it. If she starts getting worse in her testing, I hope you won't resort to doormat tactics just b/c of the holidays. I know they are important to you, but you can't let her bully you, b/c of the time of year. And don't let her scare you by using those type of words. Hold your ground.
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She is not educated on it and seems to have a resistance to the idea of reading articles...says she prefers to feel her way through these things. That's the way she's always been, not unique to this sitch.
Perfectly typical. We read information according to where our interests are. Of course she's going to resist reading the truth behind her feelings for OM. Of course she wants to let her emotions guide her through everything. After all, look how logical she's been so far!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
