She says she's no longer "in love" with me. I wanted to point out that when she and I were in the dopamine phase, she couldn't have fallen in love with someone else for all the whiskey in Ireland. It's just the way these things work.
She is now telling you she is not in love with you?
Okay, this is just me, and Starsky may have better advice for you, since he did go through that with his W. I would not go into any more speeches about her addiction and the dopamine. I actually wanted to know if she was educated on the subject. She is not going to listen to you teach it. So don't even approach it right now (especially if you've brought it up in past talks).
If it is next month when OM comes, you may have a little time for her to calm down. I thought he was coming now.
I don't think you need to try to go into R talks again. Make your point and keep it short and simple. I believe Starsky can help you with some "script" to use.
Last edited by sandi2; 12/19/1407:11 PM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
