Welcome to the board! You are at the right place. Here is my starting advice:

- You are not crazy or unique to feel anything you're feeling...read around the board and you'll find other stories and emotions similar to yours from which to draw on.

- Get at least Divorce Remedy and read it ASAP. Read it twice, even. Divorce Busting is the other core book, but a lot of its info is captured in DR.

- Make a signature in your profile like mine and others. It helps people help you.

- Especially pay attention to the vets on the board (rule of thumb, they have a registered date of 2012 or earlier). labug, uRworthy, Wonka, 25yearsmlc, sandi2, etc.

- Everyone's first post is always long, but until you're off moderation (minimum number of posts), post frequently and in short posts. This gets you off moderation quicker.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23