Its not up to you to smooth things out. Your W needs to explain this overnight if it needs an answer for the kids. That's part of dealing with what she is doing...IMHO
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
