I was told by a realtor that I do not make enough money per month to qualify. This hit me pretty hard and sent me into a tailspin of emotion.
Faith, is this based solely on your own income, or does it include any potential assistance from H? If you were D, he'd have to pay CS. Is he willing to give you anything else? How far away would you have to go to be able to afford your own place? Does that take S8 out of his school district?
It's a tough situation to be in. Hang in there. You'll be OK.