Last night she told me she wants to have dinner with him when he's in town next month (in about 30 days) to "talk", says she needs to figure out why her connection to him is so strong. (...) I didn't lose my temper, but just barely. When I told her "over my dead body" she screamed that I was "bullying" her.
You're battling an addiction with her. I've read it around here and I saw it with my W. Her attitude would be that of a junkie looking for drugs whenever I'd get between her and OM (I didn't know at the time). The focus is amazing. The drug is dopamine, the highest hit for the brain. You'll need something really strong to battle it and it's not going to be pretty. Starsky's advice is probably the best you'll find around here. Good luck, you're in for a ride.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
