I'm dying here. She had an R talk and started out sane until the bottom dropped out. She has had no contact with OM for 7 days; my intel backs that up. Last night she told me she wants to have dinner with him when he's in town next month (in about 30 days) to "talk", says she needs to figure out why her connection to him is so strong. It's part of her journey to clarity. Mind you, this is the fine example of manhood that told her a few days ago that he wanted to stay married to his wife and keep my W "on the side" when he came into town every couple of months.

I didn't lose my temper, but just barely. When I told her "over my dead body" she screamed that I was "bullying" her. That I was acting like my dad (she knows that's a button for me) Of course, every time I challenge her, she blames me for putting her in this emotionally vulnerable place.

I know she's still in withdrawal, but how much of this insanity am I supposed to take?

Last edited by Rzrback; 12/19/14 02:27 PM.
Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood