Tonight, we will be getting the "D agreement" (which she prepared) signed and notarized. We both acknowledged that it is a gesture of good will so we have a legal document confirming all the things we verbally agreed to.
After this, she wants to have dinner with me, just the two of us. I will be acting cool and calm throughout this, without adding any pressure of reconsidering, getting back together, etc. I will also be avoiding any talk about our past failures. I'll only reminisce about the good memories we've shared, only if she brings it up.
My wife leads with her feelings, so if her feelings are there for me, she will be sure to let me know and act accordingly (including putting the D on hold). I cannot force her to think or feel anything, so I just need to accept her and focus on the other things that are going on in my life that are important to me. That starts tonight, where I will simply be enjoying the company and having good conversation with the mother of my children. Nothing more, nothing less.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
