If you want your relationship, it's worth saving. That said, you can only change you, you can't change your partner.

Browse other threads, post often; you'll find help here.

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies